I have been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. We met at a wedding and really hit it off and I really like him. At the end of one our datesd (which ended at 4am)we were cuddling on his couch and he asked me "What am I to you?" I kinda froze...I didn't know what to say or what he wanted me to say. I responded by saying "You're my friend." Big mistake? I dont' know. Then I asked him the same thing to which he responded "I've already told you what you are to me, remember?" He was refferring to the night he told me that I was "something very special to him". He went on to say things like "So you do this with all your friends, how many friends do you have..." Then on our last date he said with a sorta annoyed tone "Since I'm only your friend, right?"
We always have a great time on our dates, and we've done more than just makeout. I'd love for him to be my boyfriend. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I like for the guy to ask the girl to be his girlfriend...not the other way around. Next time I see him, should I bring the "friend" topic up again?
Anyway, what does he want from me? Should I have just said the same thing "You're very special to me" What does that even mean? When he asked "What am I to you?" what was he refering to? He is significantly younger than I am, if that matters, but we're both in our 20's.
Thanks in advance,