Hi, I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now. When we are together it is magical, he calls every day, he says all the right things, i love you, i miss you, i hate being without you etc. Yet in reality I only really see him after he has been out with his friends and he spends about 4 nights a week out with friends or in bed recovering.He doesn't get drunk all the time. The real problem is that His actions never match his words and I don't know whether to talk to him about this, i don't want to be the clingy, needy girlfriend though and I don't want to be second best either. What do I do? and how?