Okay, so me and my guy were together for 9 months and a bit but then broke up in August. We had an amazing relationship. He put it down to family problems and just needed a break and also a lot of people interfered in our relationship (saying things that put him down).
We remained close and held onto our connection and on October 14th (after weeks of on/off or hot/cold behaviour and then telling me he loved me) he asked if we could get back together again. After 3 weeks he broke it off again. This time he put it down to studies.
We STILL remain close but i want him back so i don't know whether being friends is a good idea then. He still sends mixed signals, we get very close and then he seems to back off. And i know he still loves me. I actually feel like he's scared to give up his independence so how do i get him back to me? We talk every other day and conversation is good but sometimes limited. But i really want him back. What do I do? I love him alot and worst of all his cousin is one of my closest friends, and he's always saying he wants you. But still, I just want my guy back. I'm literally heartbroken.