I'm all for my man having women 'friends' as long as it's crystal clear what they are. But when I suspect there is more going on I'm going to react. This time it was with no contact. So it's been about a month of not seeing him (he lives about an hour away). When I first used no contact he almost blew my phone up because I didn't answer it. When I finally did answer I told him I had seen the picture. Oh by the way, next to the picture the woman had written "had a fantastic weekend with my man". I told him I saw the picture and he said she was a friend. Yeah right.
Anyway, I went back to no contact because I really want to get over this guy. I went out on a couple of dates and saw some old guy friends. Now my emotions are way better. I never did beg, cry or act foolish to him, thank GOD. I kind of knew that wasn't they way to do anything.
So, today he called again and I answered, and he asked me to type him a letter. I said I would, as I want to see him to see how I feel about him in person. I'm not sure now. He might just disgust me and that would be fine. In my mind and heart I think I still love him, but maybe not. After some thought I've decided I won't sleep with him, even if it's tempting. If it comes up I'll tell him that if he loves me, and if he doesn't want to see other woman, he can wait and we can start over, with dating. Not sure how that will go over. Actually I'm not even sure he'll show up. If he's gone again, then it's no contact again.
One of these days I'll either be completely over him, or we'll be really together. I have no idea which way it will go right now. And in the meantime, I'll be working out, having fun and dating.